Why is that? Is it possible that normally you do not allow him to buy anything, and now the parents will not do this, and the conditions are better.
Maybe he used it to buy game-related stuff. If so, parents need to control a little, not addiction.
It's usually about whether he has other hobbies. My child is also 11 years old, and she doesn't have time to watch TV or play video games from Monday to Friday. She wants to do homework, read extracurricular books, write a diary, take a bath, busy 9:30 to sleep, the next day from 6:30, 7:20 to go to school, has been this rule, definitely want to play an hour of games on the weekend. My children are content.
There is usually a little reward for their good performance, than know the housework initiative to do, homework item by item to complete their own seriously. You can give him 20 bucks to buy whatever he wants.
My daughter I taught her to write a composition submission, she got 100 yuan, very happy, often invite my brother to eat lollipops.
This is because you were too strict before, and he felt that money was so rare, which produced a strong demand. This way not only take their own, out of the other people's. Tell him to tell you what he's buying, don't sneak up on the money yourself, but tell him you're going to leave some change in the room, in the living room, where you can see it, to make him feel like it's something normal. If you want to use it, you must tell the adults. Start giving him what he wants.
First of all, psychological education for the child, let the child think that it is wrong to do so, second, manage the money well, do not let the child find that for a long time, the child will slowly forget this habit, third, the child can not spend or limit, let the child develop the habit of saving, fourth, you can take the child to participate in some of their work, Let the child know the hard work, and the money is not easy, learn to cherish, the last one, you can put a rubber band on the child's wrist, when you have bad ideas, play a rubber band, pain will produce a sense of aversion, also called aversion therapy, slowly will get rid of this habit.
My two grandsons, the eldest 19, are in junior college. Little read fourth grade 9 years old, never steal money, why? Now the big guys have more boards, their children spend more money, they buy food after class, my grandson goes to school, he should give him some, he will not steal, you have been a student, right?
Can give him a piggy bank, all the elders to the pressure of the bag what are put in, and each time in and out of the need for him to do a ledger, for a certain amount of expenditure needs to tell parents clearly the purpose and agree to use, and then in a fixed position to put two hundred pieces of change, when you take it, but used up to clearly do what
This should be regarded as a very serious thing, if you do not brake now, it will certainly be a scourge when you grow up.
The son does not teach, the father's fault. As a parent, the test is very heavy at this time. It seems that education by persuasion alone is not enough, there must be punishment, the ancient people have the saying that the yellow bud sticks out good people, in fact, it is sometimes necessary to use the means of flesh pain to educate children.
You this child, it is no longer useful to rely on persuasion and education, we must let him know that taking people's money is to pay the price, and now the price of his age is to let him experience the pain of flesh and blood, and then it is possible to correct it.
If you do not correct it now, when you grow up, you will be a frequent visitor to the Public Security Bureau.
Personally, I think the first thing to find out is why he stole money and what he did with it. There are many possible reasons. Maybe it was egged on by classmates and friends, maybe it was to keep up with the Joneses
Many children steal money or steal things when they are about ten years old. This is because children at this age are in third and fourth grade, which is the early stage of children's transition to adolescence. Like more and more things, more and more daring, but the psychological immature thinking is not comprehensive enough, often perceptual more than rational, do things that should not be done. Children at this age are still more afraid of parents and teachers, so they don't steal a lot at a time.
solution
1. Bond with your child.
2. Figure out your reasons for stealing money. The real reasonable need to give the money to the child, and the child to buy together; Unreasonably refuse with good reason.
3. Guide children correctly: what can be done and what cannot be done.
4. Gradually give children the right to consume and supervise children to consume correctly.
You usually must control the child is too strict, so that the child dare not say anything to the parents, will secretly take, you should communicate with the child, do not scold the child at every turn, treat the child equally, this should be much better
Uh... First of all, parents should find out what the child is doing to steal money. The child may be taught by others or may be taught by himself. In short, parents should be patient to teach the child. It is best to let him realize that he is wrong